Category Archives: GoodLife 3.0

SMARTMOVERS = Connecting “Dots”

Hey… if you’ve arrived here chances are you were hangin’ out with us at the SMARTMOVERS launch event this past Friday the 13th (Yea… “scary”!).  Good guys like Pat Cashman, Martin and Monte from Sozo Wine, Rajiv, Chef Gabe and Jerry Kingen, owner of Salty’s, all pulled together to make for good food, good wine, good times and the good cause of providing meals through the Federal Way Foodbank.

Or…. maybe you’d like to be hangin’ with these SMARTMOVERS  down the road, at one of the next events we pull off. (Sorry to those that we had to turn away this time…don’t you hate it when its a “Sold Out” scenario?)

Or… you ‘ve got a business in mind that you think SMARTMOVERS should shine its light on for exposure.

Or… maybe you’d like to launch your own “home version” of connecting the dots; of “good-guy” businesses + good food and drink +  good cause. We can help with that.  It’s actually pretty dang easy to launch your very own SMARTMOVERS Club. Martin and Monte at Sozo Friends will show you how.

Anywho… let me know what’s on your mind. Seriously, I like to know what you’re thinking about these days, especially when it comes to helping Boomers navigate life with more good waypoints on their map. Leave me a comment below… I’ll have my “people” get with your “people” (I guess the proper term is “peeps”, according to my teen-aged daughter.)

Best!

Mike

 

 

Got a “Seniorville”?… I Wanna Know About It

Happy Couple in FallLast Sunday’s Seattle Times Real Estate Section put a spotlight on the area of Riverside Drive / Bothell, a fine berg just north of Seattle,  touting it’s attraction as a “Seniorville”.  This put me in mind of an important concept that I counsel Boomers and Beyonders on when the issue on the table is…

“Where’s the best place for us to live out our ‘final 1/3 of life’ with a high level of  health and happiness”?

Occupy THIS!!

“Dez a whole lotta occupyin’ goin’ on out dere”!. (You have “hear” that statement as voiced by the cartoon character FogHorn Leghorn, who most folks recognize as having been overtly modeled after some quintessential U.S. Senator-type hailing from south of the Mason Dixon line.)

Hey, I’ve had my fill of  Occupy Wall Street, Occupy Seattle, Occupy “Where-ever”.  By the way, how come there’s no Occupy Ballard, or Occupy Sultan, or Occupy Fife gaining traction? Although, in the case of Ballard, I can understand. Folks there are quick to point out, “We don’t really need something else here on our streets that smells as bad as  Lutefisk”. (That would be rotted herring for the uninitiated.) But PLEASE…  DO let me know when “Occupy Kaanapali Beach, Maui” kicks off… and I’ll sign right on for that brand of protest movement.

Anyway, speaking of  “occupying”, it was interesting for me to read this week that…

 ”According to the U.S. Bureau of the Census, slightly over 5 percent of the 65+ population occupy nursing homes, congregate care, assisted living, and board-and-care homes, and about 4.2 percent are in nursing homes at any given time. The rate of nursing home use increases with age from 1.4 percent of the young-old to 24.5 percent of the oldest-old. Almost 50 percent of those 95 and older live in nursing homes”.

(Note: That’s a 10-fold increase in the chances of not living in your current home as age ratchets up.)

What  I wonder about is this… What if people took a little time to just sit down and think about where they see themselves living at the various stages of their aging journey… say, at 55, at 65, at 75, at 85, at 95+ years old? Yes, I know, everyone is going to say,  “Well son, this home I’m in right now is the one they’re going to carry me out of to my grave”. But that just isn’t the case for lots of people. That’s not dealing with life’s realities of growing old… just like the Occupy Wall Street crowd isn’t dealing with life’s realities of growing up.

Someone much wiser than I once said, “Here’s how anything of value has gotten accomplished by man throughout the course of history… Vision, followed by Intention followed by Means. Formula VIM, if you will. What’s your vision for the places and spaces that you see yourself occupying that would serve to enhance your leading a life of fruitfulness and contribution all the way to the end? That’s what I truly enjoy helping folks design towards when they are weighing their housing options in The GoodLife 3.0.

 

 

Wanna’ Navigate? You Gotta’ Design!

“Design is the soul of a man-made creation”. –Steve Jobs.

 

“Everyone designs who devises courses of action aimed at changing existing situations into preferred ones”.–Herbert Simon, Social Scientist and Nobel Laureate.

 

As I look out over the landscape of what I call the “Final 1/3 of Life” (age 60-90) in America today I see an uncharted territory.  Never before have all the forces attendant with the present chaos in the economy, the questions surrounding health care, longer life spans, eroding assets and shifting family structures come together to make the way forward feel so slippery, so treacherous.

White Lies and Worse

On issues ranging from medical decisions to finances and housing, with their paternalistic caregivers families sometimes face a choice between honesty and, to their minds, warranted deception that’s in the older person’s interest. See the full New York Times story here…

Caregiving With Your Siblings

I remember a classic Smothers Brothers comedy  bit from their TV show in the 60′s (uhh, yes…that would be the 1960′s) when I was a teen,  in which Tommy turns to his brother Dick and utters what came to be one of those ubiquitous catch-phrases of the era… “Mom always liked you best…”  Now  that I, and my generation, find ourselves in the roles of taking care of our moms and dads its fascinating how family dynamics can come back into play as we navigate the territory of caring for our elderly loved ones.

Providing care for your parents can be complicated. When your brothers and sisters are also involved, caregiving can become even more complex. While your siblings can be enormously helpful and your best support, they can also be a source of stress. This article, “Caregiving With Your Siblings” is choked full of helpful tips for avoiding a scenario today in which you hear yourself, or one of your brothers or sisters, uttering something along the lines of… “Mom always liked you best”!

Managing Oneself

Writes Peter Drucker in this seminal Harvard Business Review article from 1999…

“History’s great achievers– a Napoleon, a da Vinci, a Mozart– have always managed themselves. That, in large measure, is what makes them great achievers. But, they are the rare exceptions, so unusual both in their talents and their accomplishments as to be considered outside the boundaries of ordinary human existence. Now, most of us, even those of us with modest endowments, will have to learn to manage ourselves. We will have to develop ourselves. We will have to place ourselves where we can make the greatest contribution. And, we will have to stay mentally alert and engaged during a 50-year working life, which means knowing how and when to change what we do”. click here to continue reading the full HBR article…

Why Are We Not Seeing More ‘Granny Flats’?

When Seattle lifted a cap to allow backyard cottages in all single-family neighborhoods, a gloomy image emerged among worrywarts: A rush of cottages tarnishing quiet neighborhoods with noise, privacy and parking woes.

Two years later, the city pronounced that the ordinance has had a positive effect on Seattle’s housing stock. The city released a report (pdf) Thursday that found that only 57 cottage permits have been issued since the law passed in December of 2009.

I’ve always thought that concept of a free-standing, detached “mother-in-law” cottage presents a great option for families to consider when addressing the challenges that come with navigating that territory we call “elder care”. This is especially true when taking into consideration that many urban neighborhoods in Seattle are what we call “amenity rich” when it comes to things like walkability, bus routes, proximity to shopping and health services, staying in touch with social and church circles, etc.

Imagine what great space could be constructed in one’s backyard that provides a level of “independent” living for for a relative who may be at that point in life where they require some assistance, but can’t afford the high cost of a traditional assisted living facility. And over the long run that space could function for a wide variety of users while adding value to one’s property.

I worked on a housing task force for the City of Anacortes a few years back that specifically sought to provide land use code and promote this type of housing… toward the purpose of increasing density and affordability inside their city limits. Likewise, I was involved with a cottage housing development in the town of Langley on Whidbey Island.

Frankly, I’m baffled that more families have not taken advantage of this Seattle ordinance. I’d like to hear from you if you’ve got some insight into this seemingly underutilized approach to addressing the sky-rocketing costs of elder care.

Read more: http://www.seattlepi.com/local/article/Seattle-report-No-mad-mushrooming-of-backyard-1376926.php#ixzz1MG8J804I